Kay Kontour

"The Question Isn’t Who Is Going to Let Me, It’s Who Is Going to Stop Me." -Ayn Rand The funny thing about life is it always boils down to decisions, good or bad the decisions we make ultimately shape the life we must live with. I can make a choice to invest in myself to try to make a better world for me, my family, and the generations after me; Or i can do what too many people in society do which is..nothing. To be honest, I kind of get it to do nothing is safe, its comfortable. There is no danger on the other side of  nothing. However, there is also no risk without reward. Serena Williams the greatest female tennis player of All-Time is an inspiration of mine. Aside from having the most Grand Slams, she is also a new mommy. The picture attached is her heavily pregnant still practicing her craft as tennis pro. She was largely criticized for this photo but it didn't stop her.  We can learn a valuable lesson from Serena when it comes to ou...

"...Of course I know what women want, they want to be beautiful!" -  Valentino  Garavani Italian fashion  designer The age old question: What do women want? This perplexing and highly complex puzzle has baffled humanity for centuries. Wars have been waged, Mass amounts of wealth has been spent, Mountains have been moved; all in hopes of unlocking the happiness that dwells inside the Queen. The hopeless bf/husband -- lays up at night praying to the sky, "What does my lover want???" He is completely clueless. He splurges on her more diamonds and more pearls but to no avail she still isn't completely satisfied with his efforts. But why? Is she a hopeless depressive or just purely ungrateful. The answer is neither. The key lies within, within her inner sanctum. The problem is no one is listening.  Fashion designer Valentino was asked in an interview if he knew what women wanted. He steadied his head in disbelief at the question and answered sternly,...